DISCLAIMER: the following post is not meant to be a reflection of anybody, but only a reflection of the writer's thoughts. do not read on if you might feel offended.
this post is not an attack on the male species, but rather an attack of the male and female species who embrace adultery, or rather, the act of sleeping around.
i've heard of guys who would brag about how many girls they've screwed.
single girls, attached girls, married women, the list goes on.
every time i hear about such things it just makes me sick.
same goes for girls who screw around.
does screwing as many girls/guys as possible make you proud? i totally abhor it. they say it might be fine, as long as nobody finds out. but have they ever thought about how the other party would feel?
instead, put yourself in their shoes. take for example, you've been a very loving boyfriend/girlfriend and you're currently in a long-term relationship. then suddenly your girlfriend/boyfriend tells you that she/he slept with another guy/girl once, but it was only that one time. wouldnt you be shattered?
well, i know i would. once, twice, thrice. it doesnt matter. what matters is that the girl/guy whom i've put my absolute trust and love in, destroyed that trust and love, and with it, the sanctity of our relationship.
now, imagine if that happened to you!
people who screw around never ever think about the consequences. they just let their lust and desire take over their minds.
they disgust me.
now im not saying that sex itself shouldnt even be present in a relationship.
im not saying that its a must-have, a pre-requisite of every relationship.
rather, treat it as another act of love for your partner. it doesnt have to be all the time!
there's no doubt that it brings couples closer on a emotional, physical and personal level.
We all know what sex is on the general level. It's a capacity and action that is an
emotional response to someone we find appealing, physically,
and mentally.
sex between couples in a loving relationship should be a mutual expression of your own self-esteem and your intense admiration of your partner.
and NOT just the whole wham! bam! thank you mam!
you shag, you roll over. NO!
There is just too much emphasis on having sex then nurturing a loving relationship. Sex doesn't equate to additional love or attention for your partner, contrary to what other men believe.
Do you really think that a few minutes of mind blowing sex is more important then years of a warm & tender relationship? How pathetic & shallow!
slate me for all you want. i've already stated clearly that im very much against people who sleep around. it doesnt matter whether they're attached or not.
the point is, they shouldnt even be doing so.
pity, society will always have this ill about it.
i wont, and i dont want to ever engage in such an act.
and hell hath no fury like it's ever seen, if i ever did.
what i have now simply means too much for me to just destroy it, in the blink of an eye.
the melodyi have faith,
i have trust.
i will always have faith,
and always trust.
for i love,
and will always love.
and waver never it shall.
Jonathan Theo
